Support for weight loss: family, friends and colleagues
In this section, we explore what people told us about talking to family, friends and colleagues about their weight. The people we spoke to differed...
Google is a wonderful thing. It’s like having, you know the Encyclopaedia Britannica on speed in your pocket, because you can literally ask any question and find out an answer. So, I think all the knowledge is out there, and it’s not that difficult to access. But putting it into practice and being successful at it is another thing.’ Liz
The internet as a source of medical information and peer support has become increasingly popular as more patients go online. Websites, social media and specialist applications (‘apps’) provide a vast array of options for people to find information, monitor their health, share experiences and connect with others. Among the people we spoke to, going online was a popular way to access information and support about weight and health. For example, when Stuart was told he needed a triple heart bypass the first thing he did was to watch the operation online to find out what it was all about.
While online information and support was easy to access, people mentioned a number of downsides. David felt ‘more comfortable with online assistance than with group assistance’ and had found NHS Choices a particularly useful website for information about weight loss and exercise. However, the downside for him was not having ‘somebody who could sit down and say, yes, well, this is what you need and this is, in your situation, this is what you should be doing’. June said she was good on the internet but found the NHS One You site ‘patchy and out of date and incomplete’. She felt that ‘there isn’t one place you could go to, either on the internet or in a booklet and get all the information that’s needed’.Participants also commented on the contradictory nature of some of the information they found online. Angela searched online for what to eat to lose weight; one website advised her to eat ‘the really filling stuff like avocado, fish and meat’ while another told her that ‘these sort of foods are banned’. The people we spoke with highlighted the need to judge the quality of different sources of information online, avoid information overload and avoid the temptation to self-diagnose. It was also important to be able to digest relevant information without becoming afraid.
How to age well was a related issue for which people like Zaida, Heather, Sue X, June and Sue Y had sought online information. June did a free online course called, ‘Strategies for successful aging’ provided by a leading Irish university which she recommended to ‘everybody’ because it puts together in one place all the information about ‘why we should be slimmer, fitter, healthier to prepare ourselves for older age’ and the health consequences of doing otherwise. June also used her local council website to get information on what was available in her area. The problem was that it didn’t have a filter so ‘when you click on it, there’s seven hundred different organisations doing seven hundred different things, you know, from brownies to tea dances.’ She added, ‘Well who’s got time to wade through seven hundred things looking for the right thing for them?’The internet provides a space for many different forums and support groups, where people can go to find others experiencing the same conditions as them. The benefits of using the internet for support are that people can access it 24/7 and communicate at times that are convenient for them; distance and transport are no barrier to participation; and the anonymity of the internet can be an attraction for some people.
Some online support forums are run by charities; for example, the British Heart Foundation and Diabetes UK have support forums where people can exchange knowledge and experiences with others. Groups can also be found on social networking sites such as Facebook, where people self-organise into online communities for health support. Ellie said online forums were her main support: ‘You go onto the forums and you speak to other people who suffer with diabetes. They’re the only people that can help’. Lesley has joined lots of groups on social media to discuss health issues, including a group for people with ICDs (implantable cardioverter defibrillators) and another for women with heart failure. She said that there is a lot of talk about weight loss in those groups,
‘That’s not just heart-related that’s more listening to people, again, people following this sort of diet sort of things. I’ve just been dipping in and out of those sort of groups, but you know, a lot, there is a higher percentage of people certainly with women at my age who’ve had a heart problem or are on the drugs found it [weight loss] a struggle, you know.’
Linda and her husband used the Diabetes UK site; ‘We used it quite a lot. I used it quite a lot in the beginning of, when he was diagnosed because I wanted to find out as much as I could about it, even though I’ve treated people but it’s not quite the same as looking after, well not looking after but feeding somebody and being with them and I did use it quite a lot.’
Online participation can also be about influencing change, for instance, changes to food laws and regulations (see also ‘Environment and cultures impact on weight‘). Alan Y recalled signing a Change.org petition asking for changes in the food labelling system. In addition to groups run by charitable bodies and individuals, some commercial weight management programmes also have an online presence and offer their members online discussion/bulletin boards, blogs and chat rooms. These may have their own dedicated site or may be hosted on social media sites such as Facebook.
Many health- and fitness-related smartphone apps can be used to support healthy eating and weight management. These can include features such as recipes, calorie counters, barcode scanners, weight progress charts, exercise tracking, BMI calculators, and educational information. These kinds of apps are designed to improve motivation, help with meal and exercise planning, and keep users focused on their goals. The people we spoke to who had used apps for support liked them because they were a convenient way of counting calories and helped them keep a record of weight.
Not everyone found apps useful; Angela tried downloading apps but found they weren’t practical: ‘before you know it, you’ve gone over something and then you’re scouting around for food with this much protein and no carbs and whatever, and it just, it messes with your head.’Apart from online support, people continued to turn to more traditional sources of information and support such as books, magazines and television programmes. Meeka didn’t source her information online; she found it easier to subscribe to the British Heart Foundation magazine and relied on books for nutritional information and recipes.
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