Psychosis
Support groups, service user groups and charities
Some people we spoke to attended support groups; others were involved in campaigning or political groups, or attended groups where they learnt a new skill. A few people were involved in user-led research and were involved in their local Mental Health trusts. Charities and other organisations (e.g. Mind and Rethink) run local support groups throughout the UK. Mental health support groups for service users and carers can provide a forum for people who have experienced psychosis to meet, talk, share experiences, gain emotional support, and talk about ‘what works’. Some people also used internet-based support groups and chat rooms to find information about psychosis or talk about their mental distress in confidence (for more information see ‘Sources of information’ and 'Mental health & wellbeing resources').
Other groups people went to provided useful, creative and relaxing activities such as cooking, gardening, poetry, creative writing, assertiveness training, art and music. Most groups people spoke about aimed to improve their participants’ general well-being. Many people had been to a support group, centre or organisation - some at their GP’s suggestion. A few people got help via their carer to attend, or went along with their carer. People were also involved in service-user groups that: campaigned for political change; tackled the stigma associated with mental health problems (e.g. the Time to Change campaign); or offered alternatives to psychiatric ways of understanding mental well-being and illness (e.g. The Hearing Voices Network). People additionally took part in service-user-led organisations that produced reports and research about service-user experiences and mental health policy (e.g. Suresearch).
Other groups people went to provided useful, creative and relaxing activities such as cooking, gardening, poetry, creative writing, assertiveness training, art and music. Most groups people spoke about aimed to improve their participants’ general well-being. Many people had been to a support group, centre or organisation - some at their GP’s suggestion. A few people got help via their carer to attend, or went along with their carer. People were also involved in service-user groups that: campaigned for political change; tackled the stigma associated with mental health problems (e.g. the Time to Change campaign); or offered alternatives to psychiatric ways of understanding mental well-being and illness (e.g. The Hearing Voices Network). People additionally took part in service-user-led organisations that produced reports and research about service-user experiences and mental health policy (e.g. Suresearch).
Pete found he was surprised when he went to a Hearing Voices Network workshop as people werent...
Pete found he was surprised when he went to a Hearing Voices Network workshop as people werent...
Support
Many people appreciated the support and kindness from individual healthcare workers and fellow service users who wanted to share their experiences. Some people found it helpful to attend support groups to gain coping strategies (see ‘Strategies for everyday coping’ for more
Rachel found that a local Rethink group was a life saver as it helped repair her relationship...
Rachel found that a local Rethink group was a life saver as it helped repair her relationship...
And I got in touch with Rethink. And they were brilliant. I mean at that point they were the National Schizophrenia Fellowship. And, they got one of the ladies from the local carers group round to see my Mum. And she had a son with schizophrenia and she just sat and talked to Mum and just really let her know that life did not stop just because you have a relation with a severe mental illness. And that was a life saver. It was an absolute life saver, because, I mean, relations between myself and my Mum really had become deteriorated to the point where we were weren’t really talking to each other. Because I could never explain to her [inhales] what was happening. It’s very, very difficult to have to keep going over and over and over what is happening to you. Particularly if it’s a psychosis, because you can’t explain it to somebody else. And if you try, it just makes it even worse. Because there’s so much anxiety involved, and [inhales] if you are psychotic personally what used to happen to me was, I would visually hallucinate. I’d see the world blowing up, you know, it would literally be in flames. I could be watching the television one moment and think it was talking to me, in some incredibly malevolent way. Particularly if there was an actor or actress or something who looked like somebody that I knew. And, I think particularly with too many programmes you get an awful lot of eye contact, you know, so you can think they’re looking at you. The radio, again, if I was ever psychotic I would just have to have complete silence and just completely shut myself off. Which is obviously very distressing for somebody who is caring for you.
But what I did, was to find out all I could about the condition that I had and I thought, right I’m going to do something with this and I got a fact sheet from Rethink about schizo-affective disorder and it was brilliant, and I kind of took my courage in both hands and I went along to one of their membership days in [name of place] and I met... some fabulous people. And I got involved and it’s a very useful thing to have done. Well because you meet an awful lot of people who are similar to you, or who have suffered more. And I think it’s always very useful to bring service user’s perspectives to what was essentially a carers organisation, so you can have some kind of [inhales] hopefully, understanding between the two.
Graham talks about the history of HUG (Highland User Group based in Scotland).
Graham talks about the history of HUG (Highland User Group based in Scotland).
A few people were involved in doing service-user research such as that done by Suresearch, as they wanted to have more of a ‘voice’. They felt that part of their recovery was connected to owning their story with others in a group with similar experiences. Often people had had no information when they were first diagnosed or unwell, and wished they had had more information and support. Rachel went to a group for people who had experienced sexual abuse which helped her to understand and overcome her experiences. At first it was frightening for a few people to talk to others about their experiences, but they built up their confidence over time. Carers too found information hard to get at first. Carers' groups could sometimes tell them about a range of things such as finances, symptoms, side effects of medication and coping with everyday life.
Georgina initially found it difficult to contact other carers.
Georgina initially found it difficult to contact other carers.
And how did you get this information when you went through it the first time?
I would say I’ve got a lot of information from other carers, because we all support, we support each other. You know, I help other carers, and other carers have helped me. And, and services. I mean I’ve had help from services. And I think it is getting better. It’s a lot better now than it was when [son’s name] first became ill.
What was there then?
Not a lot. No. I felt very, very isolated. And where do I go for help? But it is easier now.
And where did you meet these other carers who’ve been supportive?
At conferences, at carers groups, where did I meet them all? Mainly, mainly at conferences I’ve met carers. You know, that live all over the country really.
And why did you start …?
And I belong to carers forum on the internet as well.
oh right.
So.
Can you tell me a little bit about that?
Another carer couldn’t relate to a number of groups she went to, but then found a Rethink group where she could speak to relatives and carers of people with schizophrenia.
Mary thinks that it is very important to talk to carers who have been through it themselves, to...
Mary thinks that it is very important to talk to carers who have been through it themselves, to...
Activities
Some people liked groups that were specifically for talking about mental health, others wanted to learn, participate in some activity, get more confidence, or just enjoy themselves.
One man we spoke to, Devon, said that ‘playing Scrabble and cards’ at a day centre wasn’t for him. He started a music project for service users, a centre called ‘Sound Minds’.
At one point Green Lettuce thought that everyone in the hospital was trying to wind him up and...
At one point Green Lettuce thought that everyone in the hospital was trying to wind him up and...
At one point I was meant go to hospital for a day and overnight. I can’t remember the exact reason why, but I just didn’t like it at all, so I phoned my Dad up and came home. I didn’t even believe, like, because I was trying to get to see a doctor and they were just saying that you have to wait, and I was waiting like four or five hours it was ridiculous. I couldn’t see anyone. So I, and I couldn’t believe that they were lying, because at this time, obviously I thought everyone was, was against me, and I thought they, they were just doing it on purpose, made me worse. It did. That actually made it worse. So I really did thing they were just trying to make me worse. Even though they probably weren’t. It was just they were too busy.
And then when you said everybody was against you, did you also think about your family and friends?
No. Not really. When I went, I was in the hospital, I didn’t bel… I thought like when I phoned my Dad up to get him to pick me up from the hospital, that it wasn’t actually my Dad on the phone, even though I knew it was his voice, but I thought it had been someone from hospital winding me up. And I had to like ask him questions that only he would know, to prove that it was him. That’s like what I was thinking at the time. They were just winding me up.
David started doing pantomimes, open mic sessions and comedy sessions for service users. Although...
David started doing pantomimes, open mic sessions and comedy sessions for service users. Although...
I’d love to know more about that? What was going on?
Oh it was just a thing down the Mag… down the Custard Factory called Mad cap in NV17 about 47 of us there. We used to perform little performances and that around city day centres and the Old Crown would do little Monty Python sketches. There’s an open mic session there once a month. For service users. Yes, just goof about and go home.
Did you have good time doing that?
Yes, I do actually, yes, I’m still friends of [name] yeah. It’s closed down, because it lost funding. But they want to start it up again. And I pulled out about a year and a half ago. It closed down about a year, and opened up a year later. It was really good. We soon lots of people, people like to come and things like that.
What was good about it particularly?
It was just fun devising plays and that you and acting it if you get a reception it’s been you know …
Were you ever nervous before you performed in front of people?
A bit yes, I suppose so, yes. I did. But not so much now… a little bit nervous is good I suppose.
Learning a new skill with others
Some people got help with particular difficult areas in their life or learnt a new skill.
Ceridwen was persuaded by her step-dad to go to college and improve her skills. At first she was...
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And then [name] my step Dad who is brilliant. He’s a cabinet maker, and an art teacher, he bought a bunch of craft magazines and found [name] College and said, “You’ve got to get out of this house, you can’t stay here. You’ve got to, you’ll end up killing yourself, because you’re going to get so ill and so depressed, and you’re on your own.” Because he was working [my brother] was working. So he sent me to [name of college] once a week and they have been so supportive. They’re mostly elderly ladies. I’m the youngest except for [name] and [name] who have learning difficulties. I’m the youngest by about 30 years. But they have been so kind.
Because when I first went, I had my head down like that. I wouldn’t talk. I didn’t want to speak. I didn’t want to do anything. [name], well as I say my transport manager is also a good friend. He said, “When you first came, I would talk for half an hour to an hour and you wouldn’t say a word.” I would just grunt occasionally if that, and I had my head down. I didn’t want to be part of the group, and I learned to do crafts. And over the years, I’ve got better and better, with their support and their kindness, to the point where I am now that I’m… I’m nervous day after today, I know they’re not the cause of how I am now, but they’ve helped. And with my Mum dying, they’ve been great, and things like remembering it’s my birthday, you know. A lot of people wouldn’t bother with that. But they do. They made me a cake one year, I’d never had a birthday cake before. And it’s just a wonderful environment.
Yes, you do craft work, but you get to talk to people and meet people and there are about thirty people there.
And how long have you been going to this group?
Nearly seven years. I start… Yes, I went about three months after my Mum died, so it will be seven years in June. Near about around June. I’ve made some very good friends there, who’ve been….
I also did a basic cookery course at the Blind Centre in [place name]. And I was talking to [name] who’s a friend. I said, “These amazing talking scales, they’re wonderful, but they’re about forty quid.” And they did a whip round for me at college. And paid me for my talking scales. Though I didn’t ask them to. They just did.
Jenni wanted a lot of help to get her life back on track. She joined a help group, sought help...
Jenni wanted a lot of help to get her life back on track. She joined a help group, sought help...
A couple of people had taken social skills classes like ‘assertiveness’ training. (For more information on recovery see ‘Recovery’).
Personalised help from social services and charities
A few people were starting to use the Direct Payments scheme to enable them to go to classes, or pay for a carer to accompany them to different places. A carer employed a PA (personal assistant) for her son through this scheme. Robert had got specialist help from a drug charity that helped him with drug abuse issues and money problems. His housing officer helped him organise a Debt Relief Order to sort out his finances.
Difficulties with using support groups
Going to a group didn’t suit some people because they didn’t want to talk about their problems with others and didn’t want to have only friends in touch with mental health services. Margaret particularly wanted anonymity - she didn’t want anybody at work to know she had schizophrenia, so didn’t attend.
Colin didnt want to get involved with service user groups and found it hard to concentrate.
Colin didnt want to get involved with service user groups and found it hard to concentrate.
Tom had been to an art group, but wanted to paint privately in his own studio and not with others. One person said they already had enough support at home, whilst Tim didn’t want to go to a Rethink group as he thought it was too depressing, such as when he heard about people who had committed suicide.
Last reviewed July 2017.
Last updated April 2014.
Last reviewed July 2017.
Last updated April 2014.
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