Georgia Y

Georgia is 26 and works full time as a solicitor. She is white British.

Georgia first found out about MND in her family after her nan and great-uncle developed the disease. She has become more aware of the implications of this since they have died, but tries to put MND out of her mind, and make the most of every day.

Georgia’s nan was diagnosed with MND in 2013, after developing difficulty with her legs. Her diagnosis was a shock to the family, who knew a bit about the disease because a family friend had been affected and from seeing documentaries about it. Very shortly afterwards, Georgia’s great-uncle, her nan’s brother, developed similar symptoms. His diagnosis marked a realisation that there was a genetic link, which was confirmed through genetic testing. Georgia spent as much time as possible with her gran and great-uncle, who died around two years later, just six days apart.

Georgia has become more aware of the implications of inherited MND since her nan and great-uncle have died, as at the time the focus was on them and managing the situation in front of them. She doesn’t remember exactly how she was told about inherited MND. Georgia has learnt more through her mum, Karen, participating in several research studies, which they talk about afterwards. Georgia often thinks about MND in terms of her mum more than herself, as she is more open in talking about it. They have discussed what would happen if her mum were to develop symptoms, and planned the kind of life and death that she would want.

Whilst Georgia is happy to discuss MND with her mum, she tries not to let herself think about it outside of those conversations. She sees it as something she has no control over and cannot do anything about, so does not see any benefit in looking into it further or worrying about it. She feels that this allows her to cope with her experience and not be negatively affected by it. Georgia finds that what has happened has helped her put other difficulties and worries into perspective, and she takes the approach of making the most of every day. She also tries to look after her health, and uses exercise as an outlet to manage stress.

Although Georgia knows that genetic testing is available, she cannot see how it would change her life in a positive way. Because at the moment she doesn’t feel that MND is affecting her, the risk of receiving a positive result is not worth it. She also questions whether knowing she had the gene variant would make her worry more. However, if there was an effective treatment available she might change her mind, as knowing could mean starting treatment earlier. She would also consider genetic testing if her partner had strong feelings on it; she sees MND as something that affects the family not just the individual, so such decisions are not just about m.

Georgia has been involved in fundraising around MND, and would be willing to take part in research, even if it did not lead to a breakthrough within her lifetime. Georgia is cautiously optimistic for a cure in the future; hearing about the research that is going on makes her feel positive about what can be achieved. Georgia encourages others in a similar situation to do whatever is best for them, particularly with regards to things like genetic testing and seeking information around inherited MND. She emphasises that these are individual decisions and that people should trust how they feel.

Georgia Y has found that people rarely understand what inherited MND is, or they want to reassure her that she won’t get it. She doesn’t feel a need to talk to others as it’s not “productive”.

Age at interview 26

Gender Female

So one of my friends is a physio, a neurological physio, so she works a lot with MND patients, so she knows like how bad it is. And I’ve kind of said to her in passing, like, “Oh, by the way, do you know like that’s what” – like, my friends know that’s what my nan died of but a lot of people don’t really understand what it is, or yeah, just understand the illness or have really heard of it. The Ice Bucket Challenge helped a lot in raising awareness about it, so sometimes I might say, “Oh, yeah, MND, that’s what my nan and great uncle died of, like it’s in my family,” and they’re like, “Oh, what’s that?” and I’ll say, “Oh do you remember that Ice Bucket Challenge that everybody did?” and they’ll be like, “Oh, yeah, is that what it’s for?” Or you say like, “Oh, have you seen the Theory of Everything? Stephen Hawking, that’s what he has,” and people are like, “Oh, yeah.” Although I don’t think Stephen Hawking really helps because it kind of glamorises it a bit so people are like, “Oh, well, it’s not that bad because you can just be like a rich professor and everything will be fine.” It’s like, no. But sorry, I’m getting really side-tracked.

Going back to what I first started talking about, my friend who deals with MND patients, I’ve kind of said to her before, like, “Oh, that’s what my nan died of and I could potentially get it,” and people’s reactions and hers was very much like, “Oh, no, like you won’t get that,” because that’s just what everybody wants to… And I suppose that kind of reflects the attitude that I have, really. It’s just like, “Oh, no, like I’ll worry about that later, it won’t affect me.” But I don’t really talk about it that much with other people just for the same reasons that I don’t think about it that much, because I just don’t think it would be a productive conversation.

 

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Georgia Y encourages others to do what is best for them and trust how they feel, including in decisions around pre-symptomatic genetic testing.

Age at interview 26

Gender Female

I guess my advice to them is to just do what’s best for you and what they think. And obviously again, it’s a situation where we don’t know whether, you know, it is going to affect us or it isn’t, and everybody deals with things differently and I don’t think people should, you know, get angry or upset with themselves or second-guess their thoughts if they do want to get tested or if they don’t want to get tested. I think that ultimately, we could be faced with something that’s like really, really terrible, and therefore you should just do all that you can that’s going to kind of help you manage that. Whether that’s being like me and just not thinking about it, or whether that’s, it’s going to help you to get as much information as possible, to speak to as many people as possible, then I think it’s just knowing that it’s a really individual thing and just going with what you feel.

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Georgia Y doesn’t let inherited MND affect her life. She is happy to talk about it when her mum needs support, but after that will “put the lid on the box”.

Age at interview 26

Gender Female

So I would say aside from obviously like losing my nan and my great uncle, which was obviously really upsetting and whenever you lose someone, you miss them, I would say that it doesn’t affect my life at all because I don’t let it. I think if I, like, sometimes I get into conversations with my mum about it when she needs support, but I’ve managed to create quite a good- well, I think it’s good, other people might think it’s unhealthy- but a coping mechanism of just like putting it in a box and being able to talk to her about it. But once that conversation is over, like, put the lid on the box and be done with it, sort of thing. So I would say that it doesn’t affect my life, but that’s because I’ve taken a really like hard line in not letting it.

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Georgia Y’s partner is aware that her nan had inherited MND, but what it could mean for her hasn’t really “cropped up”. Instead, their focus has been on dealing with what’s in front of them.

Age at interview 26

Gender Female

I think it’s just something, yeah, that he, he would have been aware of as and when it was happening with my nan. We’ve never really sat down and had the conversation of like, this could be something that’s at risk to me or like our kids. We’ve never really had that conversation, it hasn’t really cropped up. I could have that with him but it’s just kind of been my decision not to, and it’s just not on my radar. But we could quite easily have that conversation.

I think because we, because there’s been so much kind of… crap, for want of a better word, that’s gone on in my family- so obviously my nan and my uncle died of MND. The year before that, so in 2015, my dad died of cancer. My partner, [partner], his mum has the same cancer that my dad has, and has been fighting that for the last sort of two years. It’s just kind of like, we’re just dealing with what’s in front of us at the moment, and it just would… again, it just feels like such a waste of time to be worrying about something that we have no control over.

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Having pre-symptomatic genetic testing would only change Georgia Y’s life in “negative ways”. She feels she would worry more, yet there would be nothing she could do about it.

Age at interview 26

Gender Female

So if, again, if there was a cure, I would probably have genetic testing because then, I guess once you know that you have the gene and there was treatment you could have, you’d obviously just want to know that and get started with it. I also know – only from my mum so you might be able to correct me if I’m wrong – but I’m pretty sure that it is the case that even if you have the gene, that doesn’t necessarily mean that you’ll get MND.

So again, I just think what would be the point in knowing? Like, if I knew I had it, I would worry about it even more and there was still nothing I could do about it. So that’s kind of my conclusion on genetic testing. I did go through the mindset before when I was thinking about it however long ago, I thought, “Oh, maybe if I knew that I had the gene, maybe I would worry less about small things and maybe I would live, you know, a bit more care-free and just try and make the most of things,” but I try and do that anyway, so I just, I don’t think it would change. It would only change my life in a negative way for me to have genetic testing.

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During her grandmother and great uncle’s illnesses, Georgia focused on “dealing with the situation in front of you”. She has since thought more about the implications of inherited MND.

Age at interview 26

Gender Female

And to be completely honest with you, I don’t know when it actually came about that they sort of finalised or gave the diagnosis that it was inherited because I’m sure that my mum would’ve been party to those conversations. And my mum has always been very conscious of not wanting to concern me too much because of the potential impact that could have, and so I can’t even specifically pinpoint when my awareness sort of became of the fact that it was inherited. I’d say probably more after their deaths, because at the time you’re just kind of dealing with the situation that is in front of you and helping them.

And since they died, my mum has been involved in lots of different research, not only for inherited MND, but other neurological studies and things like that with various universities and hospitals. And so I think my awareness to the sort of… to the fact that it is inherited is growing more, I’d say, in the aftermath, seeing the way that my mum sort of dealt with it and processed it, and the actions that she’s taking now.

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Given there is no cure, Georgia Y feels that knowing more about inherited MND would “really scare me”. It’s not something she wants to worry about at the moment.

Age at interview 26

Gender Female

If there was a cure, this would be a completely different conversation. I think I’d want to know everything. I’d want to be aware of percentages, how likely it was that I was going to get it, plan for things. I think, I suppose I do, I do in the back of my mind feel like I want some information about, or need to look at some information about early symptoms. Because if it’s in my family, then perhaps I should be looking out for those because if there’s a higher likelihood that I could get it and then if you’re diagnosed earlier, you might be able to do more things to slow the progress. But again, there is no cure and I don’t want to spend my life waiting for the symptoms to happen. And you can paralyse yourself, can’t you, with Google. Like, you can have a headache and Google your symptoms and it says you’ve got a brain tumour, and I just don’t want to fall into that trap.  
 
So, it’s really difficult for me to answer what information I would find useful at the moment, because I think it would just really scare me if I also saw lots of other people that were my age, for example, who had the gene or had familial, inherited MND, and were developing it really young. In my head, it’s an illness that affects people that are 50 and above, and so it kind of doesn’t feel like something that I want to worry about at the moment, so I feel like if there was more information about younger people who are also in my situation, I think it would actually really scare me. But I can appreciate that others in my situation might feel really differently and they might feel comforted knowing that there are other people their age going through the same sort of processes. But for me personally, I don’t, I think less information as possible, but again if there was a cure, it would be completely different.

 

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