Bereavement due to traumatic death
Murder or manslaughter involving guns
Hearing that a friend or relative has been murdered is unexpected and deeply shocking (also see ‘Changing emotions and physical reactions'). Some people we talked to described what happened after a relative or friend had been shot. Shazia’s school friend was shot by her father because of “izzat” or honour. He believed that his daughter had brought shame and dishonour on the family because she was not at school when he thought she was supposed to be there. He also shot his other daughter and his wife and then killed himself. This all happened one day in 1993, when Shazia was 13 years old. Her teacher told Shazia and her two friends that they could leave school at lunch time. The girls’ parents did not know that the girls had a half-day holiday and thought they were at school all day. Instead of going straight home the three girls went to the park.
Shazia recalls what she saw from the street and her feelings of horror and disbelief when she...
Shazia recalls what she saw from the street and her feelings of horror and disbelief when she...
Dorrie was also shot. Patsy, his mother, felt numb when she heard the news, and Ian, one of her other sons, was stricken with grief.
After Dorrie was shot Patsy wished she had gone to the hospital immediately. He was dead by the...
After Dorrie was shot Patsy wished she had gone to the hospital immediately. He was dead by the...
As soon as Ian heard that his brother had been shot he started to pray. Then he heard that Dorrie...
As soon as Ian heard that his brother had been shot he started to pray. Then he heard that Dorrie...
In 2002 Erykah’s brother was shot eight times. He died at the scene. The killer has never been caught and the case is still open.
Erykah was at work when she got a phone call to say that her brother had been shot. She rushed to...
Erykah was at work when she got a phone call to say that her brother had been shot. She rushed to...
Last reviewed October 2015.
Last updated August 2013