Simon B

Simon sustained his spinal injury when he was 25. He was travelling in Australia when he broke his neck after diving into the shallow end of a swimming pool. He is now a C6 tetraplegic.

Simon was working in retail banking in 1994 when he took some time off to travel round the world with his then girlfriend and work out what he wanted to do with his life. He said’ I did change my life, but not really how I expected t. He is now a C6 tetraplegic, (this refers to the top part of his spine in his neck that was broken).

Whilst in Australia, Simon dived into the shallow end of a swimming pool, broke his neck and started to drown. He was taken to hospital in a specialist spinal ambulance and went straight to spinal intensive care where his injury was treated using a technique called conservative management, which meant he did not have surgery. He was flown back to the UK and spent a further nine months in hospital. He describes how the time spent confined to bed in hospital allowed him to think about being injured and helped the psychological process of getting used to being injured.

Simon says that everyone’s spinal injury is different. His affects his skin, bladder and bowels, so he has to manage and take care of these to prevent problems arising. He manages his bowel issues by controlling his diet and takes care to check for pressure sores on his skin. He had a permanent catheter installed to manage his bladder. He initially tried an intermittent catheter, but his limited hand function made this difficult, so he decided to have an indwelling (permanent) one inserted. According to Simon, aesthetically it’s grim, but it work.

Initially, after his injury, Simon felt he lost all control and became a patient; You lose your dignity, your sense of identity and to reclaim that psychologically is quite hard. You have to reclaim who you are

Simon wants other people not to give up after spinal cord injury and says, Just allow for things to take tim. He says there are a lot of things he can do in spite of being paralysed. Since his injury, he works, has had relationships and does lots of things he enjoys. He likes to ski using a dual ski and says that skiing is something he can do with able-bodied people and disability is irrelevan.

There are organisations in London working to make transport more accessible for disabled people…

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Simon thinks that volunteering or going back to work is important because it gives you a reason…

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Simon B said having confidence and communication make relationships great, and wheelchairs…

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Simon B’s relationship broke up a year after his injury. He said his girlfriend probably thought…

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Simon B says there are groups trying to make London more accessible, but they are financially…

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Because he has a comfortable, expensive, custom-built wheelchair, Simon B doesn’t like using…

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Simon B hates using the trains because he feels like a piece of luggage being loaded on.

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Simon B said it is important to be organised. He keeps a couple of rucksacks packed with the…

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Simon B joked that disabled toilets are miracle factories because people go in disabled and…

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Simon B thinks it’s important to find a way back into the world of work, but it’s important to…

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Losing friends is a painful process, but Simon B says it’s a process that needs to happen.

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He lost a lot of confidence after his injury and part of his rehabilitation was to get it back…

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Simon B has been offered help with his shopping, which he found a little patronising.

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Simon B thinks emotionally adjusting to injury takes a long time, so a prolonged period of…

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Rather than getting them just to do things for him, Simon used his carers as a resource’ to help…

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Simon rents a flat that isn’t what he regards as an accessible property, but prefers to make his…

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Meeting other people with spinal injury was encouraging for Simon B. They gave a personal insight…

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The Disabled Facilities Grant finances modifications to people’s homes. It can be a long process…

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Since his injury 17 years ago, Simon has had five wheelchairs. He explains how they are funded…

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