g I’ve always been able to, I’ve always tried my GP first and have always been able to talk to her and get contraception or emergency contraception. But if I hadn’t been able to I would have gone to a family planning clinic.

So your GP’s a female?

g Yeah.

And you have a good relationship?

g Yeah.

Rapport with her?

g Yeah.

So do you think that is one of the reasons why you go there?

g Yeah. That’s one reason, but I have also when shes not been there, I have seen other doctors in the practice who are male and I don’t really have a problem talking to them about it either. I think I just phone my GP first because it’s seems the easiest thing for me to do, It’s quite near here.

g OK, we did have a little problem in China, condoms broke and we needed, I thought I needed to get the morning after pill and ‘cos, I was on antibiotics at the time so I wasn’t sure whether the pill worked. So that involved sort of waking my mother up at 6 in the morning or something saying, ‘Ahh, you have to help me. And she talked to the doctor who then, everything was done via my mum. My mum phoned the doctor, the doctor said maybe I didn’t really need it.

Your mum in the UK?

gYeah.

So, what happened? She had to send you, there was not…

g No. In the end, because I was on the pill but I was on antibiotics I thought it would reduce the effectiveness of the pill, but the doctor said almost certain that I should be all right so I just had to wait for two weeks and see. But the doctor didn’t think it was that big so I phoned my mum, she phoned the doctor, my mum phoned me back. So I did it that way. If I had really needed it I could have gone through my organisation to get it.

g Not had a whole heap of experience with one night stands. I think I’d prefer to be in a relationship.

B’ Yeah, I guess I haven’t had a great deal of one night stands and they’re not terribly fulfilling and theres always that worry about where has she been, and who’s shes been with and so theres, theres anxiety on that front. It’s better to be with someone I think.

g Yeah. And they’re usually also connected with alcohol and stuff, so you usually can’t really remember. That’s also a bit stressful.

Do you think that men and women have different attitudes when it comes to casual sex?

g I don’t know.

B’ I don’t know whether it’s just men and women or just society but I’ve always, it’s always seemed to me that a man who’s with a lot of women is a, hes a stud or you know hes… it’s something to be proud of. But a woman who’s considered a slut, you know if shes with a lot of men. So, theres a bit of ‘

g Double standards, isn’t it?

B’ Yeah, yeah.

g At the same time a man does keep a, it seems more of my female friends have a lot more casual sex than my male friends who tend to prefer to want to be in a relationship.

Yeah?

g Yeah. I don’t know if my friends are just different!

g Quite, yeah, very comfortable and confident because it was in a relationship with someone I had known for a very long time. Before that we had been very close friends for a number of years before that. So it was very easy and we talked about it before and it was something that we both wanted to do so I didn’t feel any pressure or stressed about it.

And you?

B’ I was a bit apprehensive, I’d been with girls before but not in that situation or not to that extent I guess. And yeah I was, I was nervous.

Do you think there are sort of extra pressures on boys with regard to sex?

B’ I don’t know about extra pressures. I guess theres like performance anxiety but I don’t know, I think all boys are the same anyway so it’s… theres no real magician in bed at 15 or 16 so I don’t know. I don’t think it really matters. But when you look back at it, yeah I think there was a bit of pressure to, I don’t know, make a good impression.

What is the role of the peer group on that pressure?

B’ Well it’s like everybody’s doing it, you know. You… this was what, 7 years ago? So, all young kids were doing it at that time and theres, you know, privy, it was like joining a club I guess. And once you’re a part of that club I don’t know, it doesn’t really change anything but, you know, it just seems that the pressure is off a bit and

What do you think about it, the idea that sort of boys have to do sex well and do you think there is that expectation?

B’ I think there is yeah, I think, I don’t really know how to explain it, but, yeah, I think there, I think there is an expectation for boys to do well because, you know, theres lots of television on now and you know, we know what women expect from a man and theres lots of magazines that explain this and yeah, I think there is a bit of pressure to do well and I don’t know, sometimes it just doesn’t work out too well because of all that pressure. I don’t know.

And for you, what are the pressures from the girls side?

g I don’t know… When, I didn’t really feel any pressure. I mean, my, when I started having sex it was something that was just very private between me and my boyfriend at the time and really didn’t discuss it with any of my friends or any of our peer group. Most of my friends at that time were also in relationships, so it was something that was very privately going on just within the relationship. So I don’t think I felt any pressure really.

Do you think that young men have enough information about contraceptives?

B’ It’s a good question. I tend to think of myself as educated but I have a sister and I used to always take an interest in what she was reading in her magazines so I kind of found out a lot of information that way. But as for men in boys magazines and things, you don’t really see any information on contraception, I don’t know. But I haven’t bought a magazine for a long time so ‘

g You just read your sister’s!

B’ Yeah!

So how old were you when you started reading your sister’s magazine?

B’ Well I guess when she became a teenager, when she started buying magazines like Cosmo and all those girly magazines. Teenage girl magazines, so I was only 9 or 10 or so.