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Quite a lot, I was sort of one of the later people to start my period in my peer group, so I knew what was going to happen and what to do about it, but I was quite frightened of telling my mum, I don’t think I told her for about a month.

I think at that age you find it really hard to speak to your mum, at least I did, you know how to approach the subject. So I did talk about it to my friends but not necessarily to my mum.

Now we talk openly about these sort of things and it’s brought us a lot closer and it makes it a lot easier to talk to her about things like this, and I think that she felt quite upset when she realised I couldn’t talk to her about it and now feels a lot happier about things. I think she felt a bit like, ‘I wish I could of told her.

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My boyfriend or ex-boyfriend, didn’t realise he had Chlamydia either, so he was about as shocked as I was when I told him and pretty upset, it kind of ruined our relationship and obviously were not together anymore.

So who helped you most during that time?

My mum and my best friend really, my boyfriend just wasn’t interested in helping me through this or us helping each other. It was really hard at first to talk to my mum about this sort of thing but she was great and did come with me to the doctors and things like that.

My boyfriends reaction was, he was quite scared, he didn’t know anything about it so I just gave him all of the information that I had gathered so far and he took that away with him, went to the doctors, got his treatment and that was it really

How did you feel when you saw your boyfriend?

When I saw him it was really weird, we kind of looked at each other and we just, I don’t know, things had changed, we didn’t feel the same anymore and we just knew it was over.

So that ruined it really, yes I am worried about this kind of thing happening with my current boyfriend, I think I will definitely be tested periodically, and I mean if the test came up positive for anything.

I would be really scared of bringing it up with my boyfriend because you know, I was in love with my ex-boyfriend and it ruined everything, so I would be really scared to talk about it with my current boyfriend, in case everything went wrong again, even if it wasn’t my fault.

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Are your periods regular or irregular?

When I first started my period they were regular, sort of 28 days on, 7 days off, then when, it was around my GCSE and A level time, it was pretty stressful and my eating habits were pretty poor, so my periods became very irregular, which was not brilliant.

Later on I think when I was 19, they became too regular every sort of 15 to 18 days I’d come on, which was really annoying. Then when I was about 20, they just became really, really painful, so I went to the doctors and decided to go on the pill, which was mainly for contraceptive reasons as well but it did help with the pain.

Which pill are you taking?

Marvelon, it’s 21 days on and 7 days off.

Are you quite happy with the pill?

Yeah, very, I wouldn’t change it.

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We got a bit of information at school about them, but not a lot really, speaking to my friends after my experience, they seemed to be more concerned about STIs than I was, I obviously knew about them, but just didn’t really think a lot of them, you know. With guys that you think are decent and proper and so you just presume they wouldn’t have anything and you know, everything would be fine.

Do you feel you have had sufficient information about contraception at the right time for you?

When we had talks on contraception at school, I wasn’t really interested in having sex then, so I guess it wasn’t the best time. I mean I always knew about contraception and
stuff but, I didn’t really think much of it, and so later on I wasn’t really that comfortable using it or aware of it, I guess. Yeah, so I knew about it, but probably could have been spoken to about it before

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I think as girls, they are also given education at school but they are more about the mechanics of girls rather than the feelings of girls. They sort of have quite a few misconceptions about periods, you know, get your period, lasts a day, go to the toilet, end of story, you know they need a bit more guidance.

I think also, for me, I know how girls work but I wasn’t sure on the mechanics of the boys, you know how they feel about things and what they go through puberty and everything, so I think more information for both parties would be better.

I don’t think they have sufficient information about girls and the mechanics of girls

I think obviously when you’re in a sexual relationship, you learn about each other and each other’s bodies and how you know, I might not want sex or I’ve got my period or something like that. I was quite shocked when my boyfriend told me that he hadn’t had sex for 6 months and so things might go quite quickly’

It hadn’t occurred to me that things like this would happen, I’m not quite sure if that’s just me being naive or whether everyone feels this way.

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There is a sexual health clinic that you can go to, where you can get your tests the same day, but I really didn’t feel comfortable going there. Lots of people sort of sitting in the waiting room, you know, they know why you’re there and everything, it just doesn’t feel right, you feel a bit dirty and stuff. So I thought it was better to go to a doctor where I could do it privately and wait for a week for the results, I think that’s the best for me and so that’s what I did.

Do you still think along the same lines now?

No. I think anyone can get Chlamydia, you don’t have to sleep around, you can just sleep with one person and get it and that’s it, which I did. But I still think that I wouldn’t go to the clinic, I’d rather go to the doctors and do it privately.