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What do you think should be done to discourage girls not to get pregnant, do you have any ideas?

That’s a really difficult question, let me think about that one

The thing is that I feel that it really does start from your own family, your family background and what your parents teach you. It’s not like your parents should be like a mantra or be drumming things excessively into your head, but when they say things like, when they drum things into your head about success and you need to succeed, do well for yourself, not like in an abusive way but if they say you know, you must do well, because you can get better things for yourself then that’s alright.

If they did that like for weeks when you were younger then it just becomes this thing that you realise that you really want to do well when you’re at school. So like for me, I get really good grades and you know, so that I can become really independent, can have a life that I want to have.

I don’t always want to be living in the part of London that I’m living in now, you know I want to have nice things, get educated, get a job and those sort of things, nothing can hold me back, you know that type of independent thinking.

But you know, by having a life where your family background is not so great and your parents don’t really care what you do and if you’re out all night, you’re drinking and they’re not really interested in your school work, what that means is that they’re not really interested in your social life either and what you get up to when you’re out there. You end up making mistakes, you know, your parents don’t really care and they really don’t talk to you about it, you know.

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Yeah, because obviously the Christian text is the bible, in the bible it typically states that you know sex before marriage is a no no, there are very good reasons for that. A lot of people do say to me, ‘this is the 21st century, what’s wrong with having sex’, my response to that is god made or created sex not just for enjoyment but he taught that it’s sacred, it’s special and it’s something two people who are committed to each other can enjoy.

I think that commitment can only come in the bounds of marriage, in the bible I mean if sex happens outside marriage then lots of problems can come up, you know I’m not saying just because some people do have sex before marriage things will go wrong, I mean a lot of people have very good relationships and things like that, with sex before marriage.

You know, for instance what if they have a child out of wedlock, I mean it’s a very old fashioned way of thinking but affection and sex means a lot to me in a relationship and well I’m just really quite wary of things like that.