Aphra
Aphra’s had very positive experiences of GPs and feels that she has been quite lucky’. She had counselling at school while she was doing GSCEs and caring for her mum. Aphra feels that her GP was particularly compassionate and kind’ when she had depression because of a work situation.
Aphra’s had very positive experiences of GPs (local doctors) and feels that she has been ‘quite lucky’. She rarely saw the GP as a child as she was usually healthy. When she did, she went with her mum and recalls that the doctor would speak to her first, rather than to her mum, and ask her how she was feeling. Aphra said she never felt ‘overlooked’.
At the age of around 14/15, Aphra went to see the GP because of her mum, who was living with depression. The doctor wanted to see how Aphra was coping and whether she needed any extra support. At first she was ‘absolutely terrified’ of saying the wrong thing, but was surprised at how ‘laid back and relaxed’ the conversation was. Although the GP ‘can be very stern sometimes, in this appointment Aphra recalled her being ‘nice and friendly’. She left feeling confident that if she had needed support, such as counselling or to attend a young carers support group, her GP ‘would have and could have arranged it’.
For ‘quite a long time’ after this appointment Aphra didn’t see a GP but had counselling at school while she was doing GSCEs and caring for her mum. She saw the school pastoral manager first, who scheduled a slot with the school counsellor. Aphra felt that the counsellor’s techniques were ‘very childlike’ so she didn’t have ‘a lot of confidence in her’. The pastoral manager ‘did a lot more’, though, because she provided a card that allowed Aphra to see her anytime, even if it was just for a chat. Aphra would like schools to make pastoral managers a ‘more prominent figure within the school’ as she feels that many young people are unaware of their services.
Although Aphra has been with the same local surgery since childhood, she registered with the university health centre while she was doing a degree. She visited the university GP when she developed what she thought was a chest infection in the first year, which lasted for three months around the same time every year. The first GP she saw told her it was probably ‘just fresher’s flu’ and asked her if she wanted to go on the pill or get any condoms. Aphra felt that if she needed condoms or advice on ‘sexual health stuff’ she would have just asked. She ended up seeing around eight to ten GPs about the chest infection and felt that the surgery ‘wasn’t very committed’ to letting her see the same doctor. She often felt that the GPs ‘weren’t really listening’ and, on one occasion, that the doctor used Google in front of her and ‘instead of going somewhere like NHS choices… they read it off Wikipedia’.
Although Aphra has had some GPs who were ‘absolutely fantastic’, it was usually difficult to get an appointment with them. Her infection was never properly diagnosed but she thinks it might have been a mushroom and croup allergy.
After university Aphra moved back home and re-registered with her previous surgery. She feels that her GP ‘really listens, is ‘compassionate and kind’, and that she can talk as long as she needs to. The doctor was particularly good when she had depression because of an abusive situation at work, reassuring Aphra that it wasn’t a ‘failing’ in her. Aphra also feels that the local pharmacy is ‘really good at listening to people’.
Aphra’s advice to health professionals is ‘not to assume’ anything or have preconceived ideas about what young people are seeing them about. She would also like her local surgery to have drop-in clinics specifically for young people. Her main message to young people is ‘not to be too embarrassed’ to see a GP. She would like them to know that GPs ‘are there to help’ and ‘give you a good service’. If they are unhappy with the service, they should feel confident to ‘go back and get a second opinion’.