Rhiannon – Cleft lip and palate
Rhiannon’s youngest daughter was born with a cleft palate. It was detected by a midwife who was concerned that she was not feeding well. Rhiannon’s daughter has undergone surgery to repair the palate, however she may also require orthodontic treatment and speech therapy in the future.
Rhiannon is married, a homemaker and a full-time mother of two daughters. Her youngest daughter was born with a cleft palate. Rhiannon first found out about her daughter’s cleft palate about 6 hours after her birth when a midwife conducted a routine test because she wasn’t breastfeeding and was unsettled.
The midwife on duty did not have much experience of cleft and was not able to feed Rhiannon’s daughter with a special bottle at all. Rhiannon’s daughter was taken into the special care baby unit (SCBU) to be tube fed and was left to go to sleep on her own. Because she was born on a Friday night she did not get to see a specialist nurse until the Monday morning and the midwife then explained that Rhiannon would be able to feed her baby with a squeezy bottle.
Rhiannon and her husband were unaware of the implications of having a child born with a cleft palate. The couple were also not sure of the cause of their daughters cleft although genetic tests were conducted and there is no family history of cleft on either side. Rhiannon and her husband have had a lot of support from friends and family and have been open about telling people. They have also received support from CLAPA saying that it is helpful to meet and speak to other families who have gone through the same thing.
Rhiannon’s daughter has now undergone an operation to repair the cleft palate. Prior to the operation the couple had regular meetings with the cleft service team and the surgeon. They felt at ease to ask the team and surgeon questions and trusted them with the care of their daughter. She had a general anaesthetic but when she fell asleep it wasn’t a big shock. They were kept informed throughout the operation and the surgeon spoke to them immediately afterwards. Rhiannon and her husband also met with members of the multi-disciplinary team such as the orthodontist and speech therapist as their daughter may also require additional dentistry and help with speech development in the future.
Rhiannon’s advice to other families is to “Keep calm – it is a cleft palate, but it’s not the end of the world. And you will get through it, even though it is hard at the beginning, it is really hard at the beginning, but it, yeah, it gets easier.”