Weight change & associated health problems

What hasn’t worked when trying to lose weight

People often try a variety of ways to lose weight with varying levels of success. In this section, we explore what people said had not worked for them, or had only worked in the short term. We recommend reading ‘What has worked when trying to lose weight? - Motivations and mind-sets’ and ‘What has worked when trying to lose weight? Finding what works for you’ alongside this summary.


The people we spoke to mentioned many different diets they had tried, from the well-known to the ‘outlandish’. Sue X had tried the Dukan diet, which she described as eating only lean meat, vegetables and oat bran. As she said, “you’re probably talking six, nine, twelve months to get, you know, to get a lot of weight off. Now I couldn’t last on just meats and vegetables for that amount of time. There’s no fruit in it”. David found he would stick to a diet for a few weeks, but then slip back into old habits. Alan had given up many of the things he had enjoyed (salt, fat, alcohol, smoking) because of his diabetes and heart condition and found it hard to stick to a restricted diet long-term.

For Alan, maintaining weight loss after coming off a diet was a problem.

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If I take the weight off and I can maintain it for a while, but if I stop... no, if I relax my regime it'll go straight back on; that’s the difficulty.

It's the maintenance that’s the problem. So, I can commit to taking, you know, to eating less or eating differently, or whatever for a short period of time, and the weight will come down, but then what do I do? I don’t actually enjoy that what I've... the change of regime isn't enjoyable, so what do you do for the rest of your life – do you want to stay with, you know, an eating regime you don’t like? You can't go out and have a meal just in case it puts, you know, half a kilo on or something like that, because that’s the sort of effect. If I go out and have a decent meal, it will go back on very quickly and I shall have to, you know, cut right down for two or three days to get it back down again. So, I don’t enjoy that, so it means that, after a while, like I say, I get bored with that and the weight will just go back up again.


But I think I can probably keep it off for three or four months or so, but as I say, I'm very bored at the end of that.

OK. So, it's... there's no variety in sort of kind of the programme or...?

Well, you can try and put variety in, but if you're having to do without the things you enjoy then there's a tendency to say, 'Well, I don’t want to carry on with this.'

And you haven’t found things that... new things that you would enjoy?

No, no. I would say the result of the diabetes and the heart condition is that you’ve had to give up salt, fat, a lot of alcohol, smoking; all things that I enjoyed, at which points you say well... I've got to find other things and there aren't that many things. I'm not a great fan of salads.

So, perhaps you're a bit reticent to continue when it comes to food.

Well, it's... the next set of changes have to be ones that are maintainable in a way which gives you, you know, a reason for continuing to live, because after a while you say, 'Well, if I've given up so much, what's the point?' you know. So, you need something in your life which says, ' Oh I enjoy that, I'll enjoy that,' but I enjoy one of the... my real enjoyments in life is eating and drinking.
Tref had lost weight on diets, but being “a big lover of food” would become bored and give up. Rosemary said that diets didn’t only restrict what you could eat but also affected your social life: “if you’re on a liquid diet or a cabbage soup diet, you know, it is so restrictive, not just because it’s restrictive for you, but you can’t go out and you know go to somebody’s house and, “Oh, I can’t have coffee””. Being sociable in general was mentioned as a hindrance to losing weight, if eating out or with others involved rich or calorific food and drink.

Shirley found it difficult to socialise when she was trying to lose weight.

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What doesn’t help when you are trying to lose weight?

Being sociable. I think it’s general people going, “Come out for a meal.” My first thought is, as soon as someone says, “Do you want to come out for a meal” my first thing is, “Where are we going? What’s on the menu?” I’ve never been like that really because I always like, if I’m going to going out for a meal and I’m going to pay for something, I want to have what I want to have, and I don’t want to. So I did very much, I went through a stage of saying to people, “No.” When I was being what I call really good, and in the midst of it, I wouldn’t go out. I would say, “No I’m not going out because I can’t cope with that meal.” I’m better now because I think, “Life’s for living. Yes, you have to go out and sometimes it’s only one meal and if you want to enjoy it, just enjoy it because you’re paying for it,” and that’s, that’s the way I started to look at it because my husband said, “This is ridiculous. We’re never going out because you’re always worried about what’s on the menu or can we go here because they do this.” He said, “I don’t want to do that. I want to go out and have a meal and enjoy it.” So yes, social things are the ones that get in the way.

Trying new recipes may help Tref to beat boredom and stick to an eating plan but having friends to dinner does not help because they eat (and drink) more when being sociable.

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Age at interview: 77
Sex: Male

Tell me about those times that you have been trying to lose weight, other times that you have tried.

Well, I find that I go like, I find that the other times I’ve lost some weight a little bit and thinking, oh that’s good and then thought, oh why bother? [Laughs].


You know, I’m not I’m not enjoying this, you know. Because I’ve always been a big lover of food.


Going to the gym, yeah. I used to enjoy going to the gym, I really did but then, unfortunately, I fell over and broke my ankle and it’s, I’ve had trouble. Still with me left foot ever since. Probably arthritis set in. And then my knee, I had a new knee, which wasn’t entirely successful. And it, I just stopped going to the gym.

Okay and the main problem to stick to a diet is because you become bored.



That’s what I would say.

And what do you think it will help?

I don’t think anything would help really.

I don’t know, trying new recipes or.

Maybe try new recipes, I don’t know.

Or inviting friends to eat with you, I.

Maybe, yeah.

Okay. Yeah.

But again, it’s difficult when you’re seventy seven years old because I haven’t got too many friends of your, of the same age range, you know, would you.

Occasionally, the friends down the road will eat with me. We’ll have a meal up here together or I’ll go down there but I, when you sort of have a bit of a party, if you like, you tend to go a bit mad.

Okay, so.

You know, I’ve, if they come up here, I’ll cook a Chinese curry or roast lamb or lamb shank or.


And we’ll drink a couple of bottles of wine.


So that’s not really, that doesn’t really help or.

Some of the people we spoke to had experienced a yo-yo effect, where their weight would go up and down as they started and ended diets. This was Zaida’s experience: “I would do starting some little diets but I would lose and gain again, lose and gain again. And that is the end, you know, the story of my life”.

Kate says that in the past she always set herself up to fail all the diets she started. Once she ‘broke the diet’ she lost interest and started eating as before.

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Dieting gosh yes, absolutely and I’ve always, always, always set myself up to fail, always failed.
Why do you think it didn’t work before?
Because I am greedy. I just wanted to be back eating again and, you know. And also once I had broken the diet, you know, if you don’t mind me swearing the “fuck it” button was pressed. And, you know, I would have thought, “Oh so what I’ll just get. I just might as well go. I might as well completely give up.”
So I’d break it and I would just then never get back on it again. So, so yeah I’ve tried, tried them all [chuckle].
This is the way of the yoyo diet.
Yeah Atkins diet I tried that. That was quite successful for about 6 weeks. And, and the yeah I remember distinctly the Atkins, doing the Atkins diet and doing the cabbage soup diet.
[Laugh] Ok. That sounds…
It was horrendous.
Other reasons why trying to lose weight through diets hasn’t worked include choosing the wrong time to start (e.g. when there is illness in the family) unpleasant side-effects (e.g. feeling bloated, bad odour, bad breath) and lack of support. While some had lost faith in the whole idea of dieting as a route to sustainable weight control, others suspected that they just hadn’t found the ‘right diet’ yet.

So-called ‘diet pills’ can refer to prescription medications to treat obesity, such as orlistat (Xenical) as well as non-prescription products which are available over the counter or advertised on the internet, or herbal and other supplements. Shirley said she had resorted to buying tablets which “did nothing. I didn’t even understand what they were meant to do, but they didn’t do anything”. Maxine Mary found that even though orlistat ‘shifted the fat’ she did not like the smell of her skin when she was taking it.

Maxine Mary describes the many ways she tried to lose weight, including orlistat (Xenical). The diets worked but only in the short term.

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Age at interview: 63
Sex: Female

And when the doctors told you, you are overweight or your body mass index is too high did they suggest anything? Did they suggest you do something to lose weight or?
Yes I’ve been prescribed things in the past. I’ve been prescribed diet replacement, food replacement thing that you bought every week. And they’d come back and see if you’d gone into ketosis. That didn’t work, just made me very ill. So and then I had a drug that I think it was called Xenical that shifted the fat or something but that just made me smell so bad I couldn’t stand myself. It just, I could smell it in my skin and everything and it was horrible. What else did I have? Oh I had diet pills when I lived in the States. I was prescribed amphetamines to lose weight. Very effective in the short term but, you know, you just put it straight back on again as soon as you stop taking them. It’s like whoosh there it goes and more. I’ve been to Weight Watchers. I’ve been to Slimming World. Just about every diet going. The Cambridge Diet, The Atkins Diet, the Grapefruit Diet, The Cabbage Diet.
Why do you think? I suppose these diets in the short term made you lose some weight or no? Some of them have worked?
Yes some of them work. What all of them work actually in the short term.
Why do you think they didn’t work in the long term? What was missing or what was happening in your life?
I think because I approached it as a diet. And, you know, I’m going on a diet until I lose this much weight. Then I’m going to stop being on a diet and eat normally.


Angela’s GP would not prescribe orlistat (Xenical) for her so she bought it online.

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Have you used any diet pills?
I tried Xenical one time. I bought it off the Internet because a friend of mine, my doctor wouldn’t prescribe it for me, so I bought it. They said, she said, “It was absolutely useless and it won’t help you at all. What you need to do is follow a proper diet,” and she’d given me like an NHS one and I just remember breaking down in tears thinking, ‘Nothing’s going to work. Nothing’s going to work. It’s so unfair, whatever.’ So that’s the only time I’ve tried diet pills.
Meal replacements often take the form of a drink or bar with controlled quantities of nutrients and calories. They may be medically prescribed or can be bought in a shop. Myra had tried meal replacement biscuits a long time ago, but said that she still wanted to have her lunch after eating one, so did not find them successful. Rosemary had tried meal replacement shakes: “after about a week, I just felt so sick every time I looked at a milkshake and I won’t touch milkshakes now because of that experience”.

Weight management groups

Slimming World and Weight Watchers are programmes which help people lose weight by providing face-to-face support meetings, weigh-ins and diet plans.

“You can’t do it on your own… most people I think would find going to some sort of group helpful because you get a huge amount of support and, not only from the leaders but from other people who are going through the same thing as you”. Myra

“I personally am more compliant if there’s somebody weighing me”. Rosemary

While some people find the weekly weigh in motivating, others do not like this approach. Maxine Mary found it humiliating to be weighed in public. She and Angela described ways to “trick the scales”. Liz had never managed to achieve a target weight and felt that “slimming clubs just want to take your money”. Tommy said he had learned a lot from Slimming World but had stopped going because the sessions became repetitive. Once he stopped going, he put the weight back on again. [See ‘Weight management groups’.]

Maxine Mary did not like being weighed in public as part of weight management programmes.

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Age at interview: 63
Sex: Female

So for you things like Weight Watchers programme didn’t work because you didn’t like this kind of public exposure, to be weighed in public and things like that?
Absolutely, absolutely [ha ha]. Yeah no the getting weighed in public. What’s that all about? I just
How long were you doing this programme?
Oh I’ve done Weight Watchers many times. I learnt, I actually learnt how to cheat at Weight Watchers as well. I, [laugh] I learnt pretty early on that if you, if you reach a target weight you don’t have to pay anymore. So on the first weigh in because I’ve joined Weight Watchers many times and, and left again. But on the first weigh in you just put a load of rocks in your pocket. And then the next week [chuckle] and then you soon learn, you soon reach your target weight and you don’t have to pay anymore. Because it’s expensive, you know, just to be weighed and to be humiliated or clapped even if you’ve lost 2 pounds, even that’s humiliating. It’s degrading. So yeah that didn’t work for me, Weight Watchers didn’t work. And also Slimming World that didn’t work for me either. Couldn’t get my head around it how you just eat red one day or green the next day or something. So yeah just smaller portions and leave out the bad stuff like alcohol and…


Angela managed to get within 4 lbs of her target weight with a weight management programme but still felt like she had failed.

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Age at interview: 51
Sex: Female

So, you maintain, sort of you lost weight and maintained weight for how long roughly?
After, when I did that slimming diet, not for very long. Not for very long at all. I think it gradually started going back up. I think, the key thing there was I’d got down to 8 stone 10 but my target was 8 stone 6 and I could not lose that four pounds, so they would not give me that, that certificate to say, ‘Yes well done, you’ve lost the weight.’ So just from them I went back up, up, up, up.
Was the certificate very important to you?
Yes, at that time it was my target, yeah because that’s the first time I’d ever been to a, you know, a club like that and I, I needed to have that. It was like doing your degree and if you don’t come out with your [laughs] certificate what was the whole point.
So, it was almost like, you know, I dropped out.
Were they kind of places where you have to go once a week and be measured?
Yes, you had to go to the group. You had to be named and shamed or, you know, praised for your, you know, and it was always, [claps hands] “Oh yes, Angela’s lost three and a half pounds. Ooh” and there was always, “Oh, you’ve gained some.” Frown, frowny, frowny face at you. But it was, it was almost like your confessional there.
In hindsight what do you think about it?
I went to a few more after, after that because I joined Slimming World after that and Weight Watchers didn’t do that confession thing, I’ve noticed that. I mean my most recent club that I’ve been to is Weight Watchers and they don’t do that. They don’t name and shame you which I thought was really good but the last time I did Slimming World was three (years), when I did the Horizon documentary, I went to Slimming World there. You do go round the class and name and shame and it’s just horrible but you kind of almost apologetic to everyone in the group, “Sorry” and the teacher, “Sorry, sorry for not….” but you’re not kind of, “Well actually I was hungry that day that’s why I overate or I went to a party that day.” This sort of thing happens in life.
Okay, do you think that kind of way of doing things - in hindsight, how do you see that now?
I think it’s, I think it’s a difficult one because, you know, you’re not beholden to yourself, you’re beholden to the group. You’re not actually doing it for yourself. You’re proving to others, ‘look at me, I’ve lost this weight,’ and you, you start off going there for yourself and to lose weight for yourself, but I think it is, it gets competitive. It gets silly, you know, and you look at other people that are similar size to you and you think, ‘How come they’ve done that? How come they’ve lost weight?’ and then people will talk about what they eat and I think, ‘how can you possibly eat that, that’s so boring. How can you have a small piece of toast in the morning, you know, when a normal, you know, that’s not going to satisfy anybody.’ It just, like, you must be doing something else, there must be a secret.
Okay. So how did it make you feel when you were…?
Just like a failure. I’m never going to get this right. I’m never going to be able to do this thing, you know.


Angela ate a lot before her first weigh in at Rosemary Conley so that she could ‘trick the scales’ on week two. She then tried Slimming World and lost two stone but then ‘the novelty wore off’.

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I mean, that slimming magazine one was actually quite brutal. What I did in 2003, I joined Slimming World, oh no I did Rosemary Conley, sorry I did Rosemary Conley, Rosemary Conley in between, oh my goodness. I remember what an awful experience that was. I’d gone up to 14 stone 10 and I thought, ‘Right I’m going to join this Rosemary Conley because it includes exercise.’ So what I did on that first class where it was my first weigh-in, I stuffed myself beforehand, got weighed and then a week later I registered as losing ten pounds but of course I would lose ten pounds because I stuffed myself before.
But again, I remember on that first, that first weigh-in people coming up to me and saying, “Well done, well done.” I was like a hero. It was like I knew the secret to weight loss but, you know, it was just a trick of the scales. You can trick the scales that way, it’s easy to do and then I lost, I remember losing a stone in total and I remember one week, I didn’t go to the class because I had something on and a week later I carried on the diet as it was meant to be, I lost four pounds and the lady said, “Well, I’m not going to make you slimmer of the week because you weren’t here last week and you didn’t do that with me.” I thought, ‘Well, actually it’s my weight loss, not yours.’ And she was a cow and I dropped out of her class because I thought, ‘You’re such a cow. You’re not encouraging at all.’ And then I joined Slimming World, which again was a lot like the diet I’d done back in the ‘80s with the high protein because you could chose red days or green days. You could have all carbohydrates or all proteins and I notice when I eat all carbohydrates I don’t lose weight, in fact I gain it. So, I was doing this protein thing. Again, that worked, and I made some really good friends who to this day are still really good friends from there. But after losing two stone nothing seemed to happen, nothing moved and the novelty wore off.
Trying to lose weight while unwell or on medication

Lesley has a heart condition which is managed with beta blockers, ACE inhibitors and statins. She wonders whether her inability to lose weight may be because of her medications: “you think, ‘I work, I go to the gym, I eat as healthy as anybody. I think that shows because the nurse said to me I’ve actually got no sign of pre-diabetes. I’ve got no blood pressure. Got very good glucose levels. Everything was sort of in line with perfect. But I just can’t seem to, to shift this weight which I think I’ve put another, the ten, the ten kilos back as my medications has got, had increased over the last year, up to last year increased steadily.”

Janet found it impossible to lose weight with Slimming World and wondered if this was because of the high dose of insulin she was taking.

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The diet didn’t work. No, the diet didn’t work. I did stick to the diets. I stuck to them, but you do it for three months and you think, ‘Oh for God’s sake, I’ll give you for an example.” I went to Slimming World and the lady said to me, “You have red days and green days,” back in the days when I were doing that. “Right, okay.” “Stick to it, she said, “if you have the red day you’ve got to have everything you can have on the red day.” She said, “You can swap and change.”

So, I went, and I got weighed and I went back the week after and I’d done the diet for the full week and I’d put four and a half pound on when I got on the scales and she said, “You’re doing the diet wrong. You’re obviously doing something wrong. It’s impossible to put weight on.” “Right okay.” “Go home,” she said, “and right everything down.”

So, I went home, stuck to the diet again. Wrote everything down. Took it back. Got back on the scales and I’d lost half a pound. So, she said to me, “Let me look at the chart.” So, I showed her the chart and she said, “Well, I don’t know what that’s about,” she said, “because you’re doing everything right.” “Okay but I seem to be eating a lot on this diet, healthy diet but, you know.” On your carbs day, your reds day, it’s just unbelievable and I thought, ‘these are huge portions. You can eat what you want kind of thing from what I ate normally.’ All right, I’m eating healthy. So, at the end of three months sticking to this diet, I’d lost five pounds bearing in mind I’d put four and a half pound on when I first went. She said, “It’s not working for you is it?” I said, “No,” I said, “I think it’s the medication.” So, I came home and decided I’m not doing this, carried on for a week and you start eating normal because you’re not dieting and no self-control and three week after, I put two stone on.

Okay, so the weight was going up and up?

All the time, all the time.


And that, I generally think that were just down to the insulin bearing in mind how much I were taking at the time.

Paul X explains that losing weight is ‘hard bloody work’ when you live with heart disease, asthma and other co-morbidities.

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Age at interview: 57
Sex: Male

Have you tried to find information about how to lose weight?

I know how to lose weight. Go and, eat healthily and exercise. There you go, that’s it. That’s how you lose weight. It’s as simple as that. This is not rocket science, it’s as simple as that. But my argument then is, ‘Okay, yeah, I’ll go for a walk.’ Ten-minute walk we’re told by the NHS. Do that. It hurts. I’ve got me ankles and me toes and then I’ve got to carry this around [touches tummy ]and I’ve got this thing [touches heart area] banging away. It’s hard bloody work and then I’ve got to take all this bloody lot and then I’m going, I think I’m going bloody daft. Now all these things, you know, the straw that breaks the camel’s back, there’s a lot of straw on this old camel’s back.

So it is difficult?

It is, yeah, exactly, it is so difficult. It sounds so easy and you’re right. “Go for a ten- minute walk. Just go for it, go for one now.” It’s not as simple as that with me or I perceive it as not as simple with me. Maybe I’ve got myself stuck in such a rut I can’t climb out.

(For more see “Ideas about why some long term health problems are associated with being overweight” and “The vicious circles of chronic health conditions and being overweight”).

Unrealistic expectations

Some of the people we spoke with said they had had unrealistic expectations about how much weight they needed to lose and the speed with which they could lose it. Angela successfully lost weight at a weight management programme but could not lose the final 4lbs to meet her target, which left her feeling she had failed. As part of her participation in a weight management intervention, June X has become more aware that she had unrealistic expectations about the speed of weight loss, followed by ‘extreme frustration’.

June feels she has had unrealistic expectations about weight loss and the time is going to take.

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Age at interview: 70
Sex: Female

And the other thing which, which is, is interesting and it’s and I found it, and I agree with it totally this, this pattern of, of extreme behaviour and extreme expectations with people who are, who are facing sort of routinely facing extreme weight loss, is this completely unrealistic expectation of what you’re going to achieve and the time in which you’re going to achieve it. And that certainly is a pattern with me in my own life. Far, far too high an expectation of the amount of weight I’m going to lose, and the amount of time I’m going to lose it in and a consistent and constant expectation of the rate at which it’s going to go.

And that isn’t how, how you work or how the body works really, and that really you could see with it class when that was being talked about all kinds of bells ringing.

In this weight management course?

Mm. Yes



So, it’s something that you have been become aware or kind of worried about.

Yes, this particular, yes this particular profile, yes much more recently actually particular profile of unrealistic expectations and far too much perfectionism and therefore the extreme frustration when things don’t go as you wish on, really on a day and daily basis. It’s, it’s this feeling of, you know, ‘All right, I was good yesterday and I haven’t had this result that I was looking for.’ You know, who’s against me? Is the universe against me?’ [Laughs] It’s just, and that’s a completely obviously unrealistic expectation.

Okay. So it is more a long term kind of lifestyle?

Yes, yes. Oh very, very much so. Very much a marathon not a sprint, so and actually in a way that’s quite comforting to think about it in those terms because everything, we are sold everything on the basis of speed. Everything is ‘Lose this in so and so a time and , you know, this will get you amazing results instantly and whatever the beauty product or the sort of weight loss product it’s, it’s going to deliver amazing results incredibly quickly. That simply is, is not the pattern of how things happen really. Not with extre-, not with a level of obesity. Not with a level of overweight. The point is that you can, you can lose your stone in a month and probably absolutely will if you’re very overweight, but nobody’s going to notice that’s the trouble [laughs].

Illness also affected people’s efforts to lose weight (see ‘The vicious circles of chronic health conditions and being overweight’). For example, Tref used to enjoy going to the gym, but after breaking his ankle and having a knee replacement, he stopped going.

Heidi’s weight has been affected by taking anti-psychotics and anti-depressants and steroids.

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Age at interview: 50
Sex: Female

I had a breakdown and was sectioned, and I was started on anti-psychotics. Now that then to me was my first ever major weight gain. I must have put on about four stone due to these anti-psychotics and anti-depressants.

And then because of, I’d gained so much weight, I was becoming almost a Type II diabetes candidate and the doctor actually recommended, the doctor, not the psychiatrist that I was seeing, actually recommended me to change my medication, my anti-psychotics and I did so. I went on a different anti-psychotic and then I gradually lost weight. I think it was probably like two stone in a matter of six weeks. I was very, I got down to basically my more natural weight.

I stayed the same weight and then I was gradually over the next few years I was diagnosed with a lung fibrosis condition.

As soon as they noticed I had like a web feature in my lungs, they put me on 40mgs of steroids. Over the last, I think it was over a matter of Christmas and over a matter of into the January, I was left on 40 milligrams without being seen by any GP, any doctor and I ballooned up to an absolute big weight and I was gaining so much fluid, it was unbelievable. And the doctor started then to, my GP, when I went to her and just say, “Help,” because I didn’t know what to do. She just said, “Right, we’ve got to lower, start lowering your steroids.” So, this started and with steroids it’s a gradual lowering, otherwise it can have disastrous effects. Then I’d started ballooning less but my weight was still big but looked even worse because of the fluid that I was full of fluid on my chest, my arms, my legs were swollen. My face especially and then they saw me at the lung function clinic and the lung place, specialist, specialist lung place and they said, “that they were still wanting to lower the steroids,” but I was, I was still big.

I’m trying to think what happened next. I gradually started losing the, a tiny, tiny bit of weight but because I was on pain meds as well as the steroids, they gradually made me put, have an appetite, so it just, it’s only just recently that I’ve lost my appetite completely and I just haven’t been wanting to eat food. I suppose I’ve been in a very low mood because of the weight and the pain I’m in. It’s been very severe in my legs and my hands and my arms. As I can’t, because I can’t walk without a stick, so…

In spite of their best efforts, some of the people we spoke to found they were unable to lose weight or to lose as much as they wanted to. Liz sees managing her weight as a “constant battle” and says she does not understand why she is overweight.

Liz has found it hard to lose weight, in spite of trying diets, weight management programmes and leading a healthy lifestyle.

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And I'm fifty four now; I'm fatter than I've ever been, and in all the years and all the diets, and I have probably tried and failed at nearly every diet there is out there I, I despair now because now, at fifty four, with the menopause hissing, I don’t see... it's taken me thirteen, well let's see – thirteen weeks to lose two pounds. And, you know, I've been at Slimmer's World now for nearly twelve months. I lost... managed to lose a stone but it was a real struggle. And then I was poorly; I caught sepsis, which isn't really here nor there. And so, that sort of knocked me off course for a bit. But since then, the last thirteen/fourteen weeks it's taken me to lose two pounds, and I could weep; I really could. It is so hard, it's so difficult.
I go to my slimming class and I'll sit there and honestly, I could cry, and I have done in fact. You know I listen to people going, "Oh, we had two takeaways this week, but I've still lost four pounds." I want to punch these people. I want to launch myself and I want to punch them, because I think, 'I can't actually remember the last time we had a takeaway.' You know, because like everybody, I love food and, you know I love fish and chips, and I like Chinese and... We do go out and we'll go out for maybe an Indian and what have you. But again, you know we'll share the rice, we'll share a naan. I'll have a quarter and he'll have three quarters. I try and choose something that’s not...I don’t have the creamy dishes; I don’t have the Kormas or anything like that. I'll make sure I go for something that’s lower calorie on the... in the great scheme of things. It is just a constant battle. So, I don’t know. I have an active life – got three dogs; walk the dogs twice a day. We live on a hill that’s like that, so you know I'm out of breath twice a day at least. I'm active with my job; I'm not sat at a desk. I'm a highway inspector so I walk up and down roads, I'm in and out. You know, alright I'm not sat at a... I mean I have a car, I'm trotting around; I garden, I, you know cook, clean, wash, iron – nearly always on the go. My hobbies are sedentary to be fair. I paint, and I read, and I sew, and I do craft works, so that’s my hobby. But generally, I'm active, I eat well, I eat sensibly, I don’t snack. I don’t know; I don’t know why I'm fat. 
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