My husband was very bitter for a long time, very bitter about the fact that we’d had no pre-warning, about the fact we weren’t given any counselling pre-hysterectomy, about the fact that there were no eggs kept.

That was all positive for me and I really didn’t see the point in worrying about eggs not being saved, anything like that, because at the end of the day, if I was being given the best chance of survival, then that was going to be the most important thing really, you know, and we had to move on. We couldn’t go back, they’d all gone, you couldn’t do anything about it.

But my husband found it really hard to accept that part, that’s a whole other thing, it wasn’t just ovarian cancer we had to deal with, it was childlessness.

My husband was very bitter for a long time, very bitter about the fact that we’d had no pre-warning, about the fact we weren’t given any counselling pre-hysterectomy, about the fact that there were no eggs kept.

That was all positive for me and I really didn’t see the point in worrying about eggs not being saved, anything like that, because at the end of the day, if I was being given the best chance of survival, then that was going to be the most important thing really, you know, and we had to move on. We couldn’t go back, they’d all gone, you couldn’t do anything about it.

But my husband found it really hard to accept that part, that’s a whole other thing, it wasn’t just ovarian cancer we had to deal with, it was childlessness.