Profiles

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Interview 16

She cares for her 13-year-old son, who has congenital muscular dystrophy. In 2003 he had a serious chest infection and was admitted to a peadiatric ICU.

  • Background

    Horticulturalist, married with four children. Ethnic background/nationality: White British.

  • Age at interview 44
  • Sex/Gender Female
  • Interview 13

    In 2006 her husband had liver disease and pneumonia and sadly died in ICU. She has gained strength from having counselling and from her spirituality.

  • Background

    Social services employee, widowed with one child. Ethnic background/nationality: White British.

  • Age at interview 40
  • Sex/Gender Female
  • Margaret - Interview 40

    Margaret's daughter was in prison when she took her own life. Margaret was shocked by the news. The inquest found that there had been a lack of care while her daughter was in prison. Margaret found support from her dog, friends, SOBS & a counsellor.

  • Background

    Margaret is a part-time psychotherapist. She is single. She had a daughter who died. Ethnic background/nationality: White British

  • Age at interview 62
  • Sex/Gender Female
  • Lucreta - Interview 39

    In 1996, Lucreta's daughter, Dionne (also called Dominique), jumped to her death. She was 18 when she died. Lucreta had no idea that Dionne had been so unhappy, and was shocked by her death. Lucreta has found support from friends, her church, her GP, and counsellors.

  • Background

    Lucreta is a retired civil servant. She is divorced and has one grown-up son. She also had a daughter who died. Ethnic background/nationality: Black Caribbean.

  • Age at interview 57
  • Sex/Gender Female
  • Lucy - Interview 38

    Lucy's partner, Darrell, committed suicide in 2005. He drove his car in front of a train. He had been depressed but his suicide was a complete shock to Lucy. She has found support through family and friends and via an online group, Widowed by Suicide.

  • Background

    Lucy is an employee support officer. She is single. Ethnic background/nationality: White British.

  • Age at interview 39
  • Sex/Gender Female
  • Susan - Interview 36

    In 2001 Susan's father jumped to his death. He was 78 and had terminal cancer and did not want to die a painful, lingering death. Susan felt comfortable with his decision, but wishes he could have had an assisted death so he could have died less violently.

  • Background

    Susan is a part time teacher. She is married and has 2 grown-up children. Ethnic background/nationality: White British.

  • Age at interview 58
  • Sex/Gender Female
  • Linda - Interview 35

    In 2005 Linda's 13 year old daughter took her own life. Linda and her family were shocked. Linda still feels devastated, but more in control, and is back at work. She has found help through a psychologist and has attended a SOBS conference.

  • Background

    Linda is a customer service officer. She is married and has a daughter. She had another daughter who died. Ethnic background/nationality: White British.

  • Age at interview 39
  • Sex/Gender Female
  • Dave - Interview 34

    Dave's son, Ben, was aged 21 when he developed mental health problems. In 2003 Ben took his own life by crashing his car. Dave was devastated. He has found some help for his grief by seeing a psychiatrist and by going to Compassionate Friends.

  • Background

    Dave is a retired systems analyst. He is married and has one grown-up son. He had another son who died. Ethnic background/nationality: White British.

  • Age at interview 56
  • Sex/Gender Male
  • Kavita - Interview 33

    Kavita's brother was 30 years old when he jumped to his death. He had been feeling suicidal for some time. Kavita felt 'shattered' and desperately wanted help. She had counselling with a psychotherapist and found that SOBS was a 'lifesaver'.

  • Background

    Kavita is a housing benefit officer. She is married. Ethnic background/nationality: British Indian.

  • Age at interview 41
  • Sex/Gender Female
  • Marion - Interview 32

    Marion's husband took his own life in 1996. He had taken alcohol and analgesics and died from carbon monoxide poisoning. Marion and their four children were shocked and devastated. They found support from SOBS, professional counselling and Noah's Ark.

  • Background

    Marion is a factory shift supervisor. She is a widow and has 4 grown-up children. Ethnic background/nationality: White British.

  • Age at interview 58
  • Sex/Gender Female