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Sandra

Sandra's older daughter started self-harming after being bullied at secondary school, but has now learned strategies to cope and has not harmed herself for two years.

  • Background

    Sandra, 49, is a social worker, married with two daughters. Ethnic background: Black British.

  • Age at interview 49
  • Sex/Gender Female
  • Susan Y

    Susan's daughter self-harmed for a short period and has developed other ways of coping with her problems. Susan would like more local, face-face, support for parents.

  • Background

    Susan is a 47 year old social worker. She lives with her partner and their daughter. Ethnic background: White British.

  • Age at interview 47
  • Sex/Gender Female
  • Jackie

    Jackie sees herself as a strong person and she stresses the importance of self-reliance in finding a way to cope with her teenage daughter's self-harming.

  • Background

    Jackie, aged 40, is married with two children. She is a care worker. Ethnic background: White/Scottish.

  • Age at interview 40
  • Sex/Gender Female
  • Tracey

    Tracey thinks the roots of her teenage son's self-harming lie in his early childhood, but she sees it as a complex experience with no easy answers.

  • Background

    Tracey is 52, married with two children. She works as a human resources officer. Ethnic background: White British.

  • Age at interview 52
  • Sex/Gender Female
  • Audrey

    Audrey's husband is 23 and has self-harmed since he was a teenager. Supporting him has been very hard but Audrey is committed to the relationship and to helping him recover.

  • Background

    Audrey is 30 years old, married with two children. She works as a manager in a bookmaker’s. Ethnic background: White Scottish.

  • Age at interview 30
  • Sex/Gender Female
  • Jane S

    Jane's daughter began cutting herself at the age of 15, while she was having treatment for an eating disorder. She hasn't cut for the last 4 years.

  • Background

    Jane is 54, married with three children. She is director of a charity. Ethnic background: White British.

  • Age at interview 54
  • Sex/Gender Female
  • Jo-Ann

    Jo-Ann's daughter began cutting herself at the age of 11 but, looking back, Jo-Ann thinks some of her behaviour as a very young child was a form of self-harming. Jo-Ann has learned to understand the way her daughter sees the world and the fear that makes her self-harm.

  • Background

    Jo-Ann is 50, separated with one child. Ethnic background: White British.

  • Sex/Gender Female
  • Roisin

    Although she was shocked to discover her daughter's self-harming, at the age of 13, Roisin was able to understand her daughter's feelings and to find effective help for her. She is 17 at the time of interview and hasn't self-harmed for a year.

  • Background

    Ethnic background/nationality: White British.

  • Age at interview 45
  • Sex/Gender Female
  • Jim

    Jim and his wife/partner discovered that their 14 year old daughter was self-harming a few months after she was diagnosed with an eating disorder. She is receiving treatment, compulsorily, but the disease is having a huge impact on all their lives.

  • Background

    No details given.

  • Age at interview 66
  • Sex/Gender Male
  • Dot

    Dot was devastated when her, apparently happy, 15 year old daughter told her that she was cutting herself. Dot thinks that her daughter was helped by counselling. She herself was helped by getting information about self-harm from experts that she worked with at the time.

  • Background

    Ethnic background/nationality: White British.

  • Age at interview 57
  • Sex/Gender Female