I always tend to wear like jogging bottoms so I can literally just pull them down as soon as I go in, so nothing, I have no belts, I’ve not worn belts for years. Just again looking for things that have got just easy access. So, I do tend to, even for work I tend to wear like drawstring one that’s got like an elasticated waist, because yeah, I just know that there would no way be enough time if there was a buckle or a zip, for me to get to the toilet.

So I said to him [my employer], “It’s looking it, like the stage four for endometriosis,” and literally he said to me, “Oh well you know it’s not stage four cancer.” Is what he said.

And I just thought that was really insensitive comment to say, so obviously not for one second did I assume it was cancer, and I’ve only spoke, it’s not as if I had a lengthy conversation with him about it, I literally had a two-minute conversation with him about this and I just felt like he just constantly belittles my health problems, and so I’m looking to apply for jobs elsewhere as well because yeah, I’m just, and also I think it’s a bit of a problem having a small, kind of when you work for a smaller company it’s not really, it’s all, everything is done in house and it’s not a proper HR system, so I just feel like also when I do change jobs I want to be looking for a much bigger sort of more of a corporate environment, because I actually feel like it actually would be safer for me because comments like that you could then refer back to, let HR know about it. And it’s just like I can’t really let anyone know, you know, so, cos there’s no system for like behaving in that way.