Basically they [seizures] started coming back and this time they were complex partial seizures, so it’s during the day I’d wander off and behave in unusual ways. At first I was living in denial, you don’t know you’re having a seizure unless someone has told you, and the point there is whilst you can feel unusual chemical reactions going on through your body when you’re coming out of a seizure, or you’ve lost your memory or whatever. You slowly have to start realising if you’ve lost your possessions or you’ve locked yourself out of the house or if you do have a seizure and you’ve bitten your tongue, you can’t live in denial forever. Which ultimately goes along to the fifth phase of having to start accepting it which is what I’m going through now. Whilst I accept it, I’m more aware of things I do. I don’t let it stop my life. I have lots of seizures and loads of auras if you want to call it that, but they’re actually simple partial seizures.

And more recently as the epilepsy has come back that’s when I realised that phase three, that period where it was supposedly controlled, I wasn’t actually accepting that I was still prone to seizures and the side effects of the medication. Now I have become aware of that, hence the interest in the subject and my sitting here at the moment talking about it, it’s part of the process of accepting it but recognising there are strengths in having the condition as well as not necessarily being able to do other things.

Obviously the cycle you go through when you’re having a seizure is, everyone talks about the aura or the initial trigger and that may not happen but ultimately when you’re coming out of a seizure it’s the disorientation process you’re going through, theres parts of your brain which are not working. You haven’t totally shut down because during a seizure I’ve cooked meals and eaten, so that’s fascinating. However, the psychological problem when you’re coming round is the fact that you weren’t in control, so its like having a squirrel in your head that’s doing something different. But when you’re coming out of it theres definitely the depressive stage your going through which is natural, it’s the chemicals in your body which have to control you in some ways, that is what needs to be explained by a neurologist to people, and that is what’s not given time for.

If you become aware of those things you have every right to be depressed. If you want to come out of it and because you’ve got to get on with life, but in many ways by accepting that, you appreciate it’s your body telling you things. If you become aware of those things that’s when you can talk to someone, or cry or whatever it is but those are the areas which now need to be emphasised because everything is about the instance of seizure, its not about that recovery process and that bits fascinating and that’s where the overlap is. I’m now very aware of those things.

Art is probably the one I’m most interested in but that’s one thing which is a form of self therapy in many ways. And my interest in that leads on to creative writing because expressing yourself when you’re writing is a wonderful medium and its what you need if you want to get involved in sharing ideas with people and expressing them to different audiences.

Have you ever been interested at all in complementary approaches to epilepsy?

Oh when I was going through I suppose a control period I was trying to deal with my psycho/social problems, I was trying all sorts of different medications and I was, I used to do meditation at the time, I’m a big meditative person, I’m a strong believer in many of those things. Now I don’t have time to practice it but if I was in a house with space I’d probably meditate again. I was doing yoga but as the seizures got worse it’s a bit embarrassing wandering out of the room half naked, so I stopped that. But I have an interest in those things just as I have a strong belief in theres body energies, you’ve got your seven chakras and that’s how you can become aware of different chemicals rushing round your body. Or if you give time to actually think how you actually feel, hence the hesitation, I’m becoming aware in my body. So yes always an underlying interest in that.