Pre-eclampsia and high blood pressure in pregnancy

Stewart

Male
Age at interview: 38

Brief outline: My wife developed pre-eclampsia and was induced at 7 months (33 weeks) into her pregnancy. She became more unwell and needed an emergency c-section. Our baby, Alexandra, stayed in SCBU (Special Care Baby Unit) for several weeks before she was discharged.

Background: My name is Stewart, I am 38 years old and a telesales manager. My wife, Claire, also took part in the Healthtalk study about high blood pressure in pregnancy. We have one daughter, aged 6 months. I identify as White Scottish.

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Problems in the pregnancy and going into hospital

My wife, Claire, developed pre-eclampsia. I didn’t know much about the condition until she was diagnosed with it. I was then able to find more information online. Claire didn’t show any of the tell-tale signs of pre-eclampsia and I fear that it could have been very serious if the condition had not been detected when it was.

After she was diagnosed, Claire started on medication to reduce her blood pressure. She was admitted to hospital and induced at 7 months (33 weeks) into the pregnancy. When I visited her the next morning, she was in a lot of pain and unable to sit down or stand up. I asked for a doctor to come see her several times. Claire had observations taken by the midwives, but a doctor didn’t arrive until later in the day. She became more poorly with a high temperature and vomiting. The doctor and midwives kept me well-informed of what was happening. Later that evening, the doctors told us that Claire would need to have an emergency c-section. The next steps felt quite rushed but I did my best to be calm and supportive for Claire throughout. I went into the operating theatre with her and we were talked through the procedure as it was happening. We briefly saw our baby, Alexandra, before she was taken to SCBU (Special Care Baby Unit). 

After the birth

It was hard having Claire and our new baby in separate places in the hospital. I sometimes felt like a split dad and husband. Claire was unable to go to SCBU at first. One thing which helped was the hospital setting up a video monitor by Alexandra’s incubator so Claire could see and talk to her. After a day or so, I was able to take Claire up to SCBU so we could spend time together as a family. Claire was kept in for a few days. Our baby stayed in SCBU for a few weeks for observations. Claire and I found it hard being back home without Alexandra. We tried to spend lots of time at the hospital but Claire also needed plenty of rest to recover from the c-section.

Areas for improvement

Claire and I were left without some important answers, and we were disappointed with the way some things had been handled at the hospital. For example, Claire had been kept on a post-natal ward which meant she was surrounded by new mothers with their children whilst our baby was in SCBU. We arranged to speak with someone at the hospital. We learnt at this meeting that the pain Claire had been experiencing over her stomach was due to the placenta coming away from her uterine wall. I don’t think we were given enough information about pre-eclampsia at first and we were left to find it out for ourselves online. I think partners should be told about the symptoms of high blood pressure problems like pre-eclampsia so that they can look out for warning signs. As I found, sometimes a partner notices important changes in the pregnant woman’s health that she may not herself be aware of yet.

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